Every day we face choices. Some are as simple (or not) as what to wear. Others are what we call moral decisions. Our conscience helps us out there. A well-formed conscience guides us to do what is right and good, and we can make good decisions when we look to Christ's teachings, the Church, the Holy Spirit, and wise people.
Here are some steps to help you in making a moral decision.
- Think: Take time to consider your options and the possible consequences to yourself, others, and your relationship with God. Take time to hear what your conscience might be saying.
- Compare: How do your options compare to Jesus' Beatitudes, his New Commandment, the Ten Commandments, and the Church's teachings? If an option contradicts any of these, then it's not really an option anymore.
- Talk: Find someone who can understand the situation you are in. Tell him or her what you are thinking and why. Ask for advice.
- Pray: Turn to the Holy Spirit in prayer, asking for guidance to make the right decision.
- Act: Make your choice and be confident that you have made the right one based upon your conscience, your consideration, and your prayer.